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Newest Dangers for Youth of Synthetic Drugs

The U.S. drug crisis is evolving in incredibly dangerous ways that parents should be aware of and share with their teenagers. A new wave of ultrapotent synthetic drugs is flooding the illicit market. These lab-made drugs can be exponentially stronger than fentanyl, frequently go undetected by standard drug tests, can come in many forms, and don’t always respond to typical

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How do I talk to my children about online gambling?

If you’re not aware that online gambling has become a huge problem among youth, especially boys, please read our previous blog, Gambling is Rapidly Becoming the Newest Addiction for Teens. Because it’s growing into such a difficult issue for young people, parents should discuss gambling with their children just like they do for other threats to their well-being like alcohol

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Teaching Teens How to Set Healthy Boundaries

Boundaries in a relationship define personal limits regarding your time, resources, emotions, and physical space. Our boundaries teach others how to treat us – what we are willing and not willing to accept in a relationship. Our boundaries help us take care of ourselves and build trust, safety and respect with others. Setting limits allows us to determine how we

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Reasons for Declining Teen Literacy and How Parents Can Help

The average reading scores of American high school seniors has significantly declined over the last two decades. For example, the National Assessment of Educational Progress (NAEP) found that reading scores for 12th graders were 10 points lower in 2024 than they were in 1992. In fact, 32% of students scored below the “basic level” for reading, which means that nearly a

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Empowering Youth: Teaching Teens to Properly Use Tools

It feels very rewarding and empowering – not to mention financially beneficial – to be able to take on basic do-it-yourself (DIY) projects around a home. But these are not skills that are taught in school or with a special class. Parents should take the time to equip their teens with the knowledge and ability to handle everyday maintenance tasks.

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Reframing Adolescent Years in a More Positive Light

The stereotype of a typical American teenager is not very encouraging. American movies, tv shows, jokes, books, and even social media tend to portray adolescents as moody, irresponsible, lazy, or rebellious. Interestingly, eastern cultures tend to view adolescence more positively and as a time of learning how to become responsible and fulfill family obligations. You might wonder why stereotypes should

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Teaching Youth to Recognize Unhealthy Relationships

February is National Teen Dating Violence Awareness Month, so it’s a great time to talk to the youth in your life about healthy relationships and dating abuse. Adolescence is a time for exploring romantic feelings, but because teens have so little experience, they don’t really know what behaviors are acceptable or unacceptable in a dating relationship. Unfortunately, almost a third

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Process to Teach Teens Good Decision-Making Skills

Good decision-making skills are essential for navigating life’s opportunities and challenges. While developing these skills does not prevent any of us from making mistakes, it does allow us to assess options, weigh consequences, make informed choices, and develop resilience in the face of uncertainty. As a result, teaching teens decision-making skills is essential as they transition from childhood to adulthood. We

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Proven Way that Parents Can Make Their Teen Feel Loved

Let’s admit it: teens are not easy to express love to. Between their eye-rolling at things you say and actively avoiding any hugs, you might be wondering how on earth you can genuinely show some love to that child who used to cuddle in your lap. Fortunately, researchers have found an answer: reciprocal self-disclosure. That’s a big phrase, but all

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Phone Use at School

Research published in JAMA this month reported that American adolescents, age 13 to 18, spend an average of 70 minutes of their school days on their phones for non-schoolwork activities. The study used an app that tracked how much time students spent on their phones and what platforms they used. Researchers discovered that teens spent most of their phone time

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